Controlling relationships
HAve you ever been in a relationship where you felt you were losing yourself? Like trying to keep this relationship is breaking the person you are inside down to nothing, they say compromise, they say if you love me you will change for me but is there a limit on things you change an compromise for a relationship. When are you able to say ENOUGH an i say enough with hella infuses, when can you say ENOUGH FOR ME. for my person because if this relationship ends are you even going to know who you are anymore as a woman or man?
See these things are touchy topics because when you love someone you dont want to hurt their feelings but making yourself unhappy hurts your own feelings. SO ask yourself who do you love more? do you love your partner more then you love yourself or do you have the survial instinct you should have on a plane. An what i mean by that is if this plane goes down i put my protective gear on first NOT secvond yeah I know some of yall didnt know that lol but yes uou put your oxygen on you put your vest on first even for children you take care of you first and then you helo your child or your mate, so is that the concept you have for your relationship because i dont think i have ever had that concept in any of my relationships an maybe thats why when we break up they still have trhem an im stuck rebuilding me back
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