any realationship

In any relatioship you have highs an lows but you have to learn how to work thru the lows.Its takes a strong individual to forgive but a even stronger one to leave the relationship when they are still in love an want to make things work, but shut when u know they are the only one fighting and trying to make things work u yourself should set them free

We get hurt the most when we value the friendship of a partner an what i mean by that is with your husband or wife if you value them as a friend an not only the title they poses because you lay down with them it hurts more when they decieve you and it makes you feel as if you cant forgive them unless they understand exactly how you feel.

Now if you know me personally you know im very strong an i never let anyone see me at my low. So when something happens i just completely shut down and that is not fair to my circle because they deserve the option to be there for me when i need them the most. Lies only get u so far but the truth can actually get you even farther.

Communication in any relationship is key an thats relationship family an friends even co workers!

Yall this quarantine has shown me that i need to live in the damn moment ok not just this quarantine i met a amazing woman an even tho we are not in eachothers lives to see the growth in one another she has taught me that i need to live alot more then i have now dont get me wrong i travel alot i do alot of things but i want to get out my comfort zone more!! I am the more reserved type but I always seem to get a partner that is outgoing an more free spirit then myself an im not saying im going to change im just going to let the inner me show alot more,

Some people come in your life to bring the goofy energetic up beat live in the moment you out!!

Now some of the relationship we get in they break you an that is my biggest down fall i find myself apologizing yall for bullshit, i could be grabbing something an i tap my mates shoulder im apologizing for it like wtf or i will be talking an i apologize for things that i didnt even do. An 2018 an 2019 I swear they changed me but even with everything going on in 2020 now it has brought the old me out of me that i used to be an i am forever greatful,

Never let your relationship change who YOU are. If you are going to change change to make something about you better an to benefit some comas in your bank account not because someone loves you for who they think they can change you to be. Shit being in a relationship with someone who is in love with the thought of you omg i swear is so draining because you will never live up to the standers they hold of you, they want to change you an have you resemble the person they want you to be. Not the person you are. I was withThink about this, if your with someone for 2yrs you at some point start to believe the belittling shit they say an you start to think u are the problem when yes honey some of us are the problem but why are we the problem. Expectially when you are in a relationship with soemone you have to be ready and willing to have a serious conversation because when you ask for the truth some things you learn can hurt your soul. An others could make you better shit the hurt i have had lit a fire under my ass for me to realize my worth again,